How to Help Homeschooled Children Gain Interpersonal Skills

How to Help Homeschooled Children Gain Interpersonal Skills

In recent years, homeschooling has become an option for many families. There are many concerns about socialization for parents who are considering or have begun homeschooling their kids. This is understandable since most of these parents went through the traditional schooling system and were surrounded by their peers—with whom they socialized. 

Socialization certainly looks different for homeschooled kids. But this doesn’t mean these kids do not understand social cues. Studies conducted by many researchers find that homeschooling does not harm children's ability to develop social skills. Homeschooled kids have more opportunities than schoolgoers to interact with their peers and interact with people of all ages and from all walks of life. 

Suppose you are considering homeschooling your kids but are concerned that their social skills may be negatively impacted by it. In that case, I should mention that developing social skills in your homeschooled kids depends on your ability to incorporate social activities into their daily routine.

Here are some ways to incorporate activities into their routines to encourage a healthy social life.

Enroll your kids in extracurricular activities; Homeschooled kids should participate in extracurricular activities such as martial arts, dance lessons, piano lessons, and other activities they might be interested in. When you enroll your kids in such activities, you allow them to physically interact with people who are not necessarily friends or family members. By doing so, they learn how to express themselves better and also understand the behaviors of others. 

Children doing gymnastics

    Sign them up for summer camp; Summer camps provide kids with lifelong learning experiences. At summer camps, your kids are exposed to different educational activities alongside their peers. This provides a medium for your homeschool kid to practice social interaction. There are many camp opportunities for kids these days—whether day or sleep away camp. Attending summer camp is a perfect way to make long-lasting friendships while building independence.

    Summer camp

      Go outside; Create time to take your homeschool kid beyond your backyard. Visit your local parks, go to the zoo, see a movie or go to the mall. Who knows, your kid may run into one or two kids and make friends with them. Group tours are also a great way to help your child develop their social skills. As you travel in groups, your child gets to interact with other travelers and their kids. A visit to extended family for the weekend would also encourage interaction and the development of healthy social skills. 

      children playing on a playground

        Don’t try to fill in as any member of their social cycle; Most parents make the mistake of trying to become their child’s classmate, tutor, and friend all at once. This can be very confusing for your kid. Don’t get me wrong; there is nothing wrong with being close friends with your kids, but this doesn’t mean you should fill in for all their social needs. You can play with or enjoy children's activities with your child, but don’t limit them to considering you as their playmate. Allow your kid to interact with friends and acquaintances. 

        children playing together

          Organize playdates and sleepovers; Host parties or play dates for your kid. This will encourage your child to create and maintain friendships. During playdates and sleepovers, you can organize educational games and activities for the children to enjoy. Such activities will keep the kids entertained while teaching them to interact and work well with others. 

          Children playing sleepovers

            Encourage your kids to participate in competitions; Enroll your child in drawing competitions, sports, debates, and talent shows. Some US states allow homeschoolers to participate in public school extracurricular programs. If it is something you are interested in, enquire with your local schools to find out what’s available for your child to participate in. Also, consider enrolling your child in public libraries. 

            Young kids making diy project

              Encourage other forms of communication; Social skills aren’t limited to playdates or talking to other children and adults. They also include softer skills like writing and public speaking. Help your child make connections via non-verbal means of communication. Encourage your child to keep a diary. This will help them express themselves better. This will also help your child become aware of their feelings. Making cards and writing letters is a great way to build creativity and develop social skills in your kids. 

              Boy writing in an agenda

              As homeschooling becomes more popular among families, many parents have turned to extracurricular activities to help their kids develop social skills. There are, however, many other creative ways to get your child to socialize. They include playdates, virtual classes, and competitions. Homeschooled kids can be taught to thrive intellectually and socially by teaching them to form meaningful interactions with others.

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              • MI

                I don’t have children, but I love them very much. Local boys who study at home often come to my workshop and they like to ask what I do and watch how I do it. And so I thought, maybe I should organize a club of young mechanics for them so that they could have socialization in our rural area?

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                Sarah J

                Many of our neighbors, going somewhere, asked me to stay with their children, who were home-schooled. I came up with various entertainments for them and they liked it so much that we decided to organize a Guest Sunday on a permanent basis. On this day, all the neighborhood kids come to my house and together we make handmade decor or dance. That’s great!

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                Hasan Guller

                These recommendations will be very useful to me in the future, because my son is growing up and we are just thinking about the form of his education, leaning more towards the form of homeschooling. But there is always room for doubt and such reading helps to make informed decisions. Thanks!

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                Alexandra Yakovleva

                My son Emil is homeschooled and he attends karate. I see how positively this affects his emotions and feeling of being a part of society. And on weekends, my husband and I become his students. The son shows us what he learned in karate and we repeat. I read that it perfectly socializes a child when he can be in the role of a student and a teacher on different days. I am happy to observe that home schooling does not negatively affect his sense of self. All the tips from the article are great!

              • RO

                As someone who has experience with both homeschooling and traditional schooling, I found this article to be incredibly insightful and informative. The tips and strategies provided for helping homeschooled children develop interpersonal skills were both practical and easy to implement, and I appreciated the emphasis on creating opportunities for socialization and interaction with peers. However, I did feel that the article could have benefited from more information on the potential drawbacks of homeschooling when it comes to socialization, as well as more concrete examples and anecdotes from the author’s own experiences. While the article touched on some of the challenges of homeschooling, such as the lack of structured social opportunities and the potential for isolation, I would have liked to see more discussion on how these challenges can be overcome in practical terms. Overall, I think this article is a great resource for parents and educators looking to help homeschooled children develop interpersonal skills, and I would recommend it to others in the homeschooling community.

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                Ana Rys

                This article touches upon a serious topic. Nowadays homeschooled children do lack some communicating skills. However, there are ways of helping your kid get out of their shell and start getting into contact with others, both children and adults. The author gives some useful pieces of advice about it, for example, enrolling them into extracurricular activities – not only will it develop new skills but also it will help your child find friends. Overall, the article provides very useful information for parents who are concerned with their children’s interpersonal skills.

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                Stacy Haze

                Those are very helpful tips! Nowadays, a lot of children are being homeschooled for various reasons. I dare say that not only homeschooled children can have problems with socialization, some schoolers do, too. I think playdates are the best option to help the kids and their parents. It’s like killing two birds with one stone – children form friendship and learn how to interact with each other, while parents can exchange their experience.
                Good idea with extracurricular activities! I think that best options would be team sport, like synchronised swimming, football or basketball.

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